Yesterday I was invited to help singles going through a bad breakup at the www.exaholics.com booth at the Health and Wellness Expo at the Jacob Javitz Center. The exaholics.com site offers a great amount of support to people who are having trouble healing from a breakup. We’ve all had our share of breakups and some are worse than others. My goal is to help you completely avoid a bad breakup. Unfortunately almost every day I hear about people making somewhat innocent mistakes on dates which cause them to get dumped. I don’t want that to happen to you. In this 1-minute video I share a few of the most common mistakes you NEED to avoid if you want to keep that cutie interested in you.
After you watch it I’d love to hear from you in the comments section below. Have you ever been on a date with someone who made one of these mistakes? Did you give them another chance afterwards or did you end the relationship? Have you ever made one of these mistakes on a date and how did your date react? We really want to open up the conversation and hear all of your thoughts in the comments section below. Also, if you like this video please share it with your friends!
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Hi Tracey! Thanks for sharing this video and all your advice. I couldn’t agree more that a HUGE mistake is constantly looking at your phone during a first date. I’ve had several first dates where the guy paid more attention to his phone than me. There’s nothing more unattractive! It’s safe to say there wasn’t a second date!
Molly, it is my pleasure and I’ll be keeping my fingers crossed that your dates are awesome from here on out.
Hi! Good advice. I would add that phones should not even be in sight. I read a study that mentioned that phones on the table created a tense vibe. It makes the other person feel less important.
Ellen, you are sooooo right and placing the phone anywhere visible on a date is a huge mistake!
It always amazes me how some people think it’s OK to talk about previous relationships on a first date! A HUGE turnoff for me!
Ally, I couldn’t agree with you more. The only person you should be focused on during a date is your date!
Talking about past relationships, Talking about news weather and sports, Talking about work. These are no no’s also when attempting to discover the person inside and learn what makes him or her tick as a loving human being.
David, I absolutely agree! Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts and please keep ’em coming!!!
I really love your work! Finally someone talking rationally about what are the wedges that make contact unsuccessful and the glue that can bind us together. I will be following you on this amazing journey and thank you so much for making this your purpose in life.
David!!! Your beautiful words made my heart smile and I wish you continued success as well.
Wow.
o.O
What amazes me is that people are still doing this and still getting dates.
I mean, I always feel like I have to be careful of my manners because I never know what other random thing the man in question is going to “dislike” about me — I was set up once by a mutual friend and it got back to me that the man didn’t like the color I wore. “Too much black”, apparently.
Um … okay??
M, any man who is picky about the color his date wears is obviously just unavailable. It sounds like it was his loss!