Are you UNDATEABLE?

Written on October 14, 2014 at 9:00 am, by

On 11.19.14, Craig Rogers, Michele Chalupka and I will be hosting a FURtastic singles event benefit for Animal Haven, an amazing no-kill nonprofit animal shelter in Soho.  We guarantee you’ll meet a lot of new sexy singles and have a most pleasurable time!  The fun-filled event will be at Stitch (247 West 37th Street) at 6 PM.  To join us please donate $35+ to Animal Haven here: http://ow.ly/D6i6r and we look forward to seeing you there.

In the dating video below Chelsea learns how to flirt and searches for romance among the adoptable dogs at Animal Haven.  If you’ve ever wondered if you are undateable, liked a dog or just want to spend the next 3 minutes smiling you NEED to watch this adorable video which is written/directed/produced by the amazingly talented Debra Kirschner of www.DebraKirschner.com

This dating video is a blast to watch and I hope you enjoy it as much as I do. Let me know your thoughts in the comments section below and if you like this dating video please share it with everyone you know!

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    Are they EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE?

    Written on October 3, 2014 at 12:11 pm, by

    Have you ever felt frustrated  by someone’s level of efforts to see you? Ugh, of course you have! It happens to the best of us and in this dating video I share exactly what you can do if you find yourself interested in someone emotionally unavailable. After you watch, let’s discuss!

    So, what are your thoughts? Have you ever felt disappointed because the person you like is emotionally unavailable? How did you handle it? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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      My Best Breakup Advice

      Written on September 20, 2014 at 11:18 am, by

      Lately my life has been going very well overall.  But I’ve certainly had my share of challenges, especially when I was single. Dating can be a lot of fun but it can also be difficult at times.  It all worked out for me in the end and I’m now happily married.  But like you I’ve spent years being single and it wasn’t always enjoyable.  As much as I wish I could tell you that every relationship before my husband was wonderful I just can’t because it isn’t the truth.  There were many times when I felt disappointed about how a relationship turned out.

      Let’s face it, as much as we don’t always like it, we have no control over the way other people act.  BUT, I discovered a secret weapon which can help you minimize the pain you feel from a disappointing relationship and protect yourself from having their negativity turn you into a  bitter person.  This secret weapon is 4 little but powerful words which will enable you to continue to move forward on your journey while being your most attractive self. Can I get a drumroll? They are, “I wish you well.”

      So the next time someone you are interested in promises you a date but doesn’t follow through, I encourage you to think to yourself, “I wish you well.”  And mean it.  You never need to actually say these words to them if they don’t deserve your kindness. In fact, you never need to speak to them again if that isn’t a healthy thing to do.  These words are not for them, these words are for you and are all about you being kind to YOU.  These 4 words will protect you from becoming a bitter person who turns off desirable people.  These 4 words will enable you to release the negative interaction and continue to move forward peacefully and happily.  I know these words aren’t always easy but these words directed at your ex will give you peace and enable you to quickly attract someone special who is worthy of you.

      May you be happy and have a love life which is exactly what you want it to be.

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        Trouble Finding the RIGHT Person?

        Written on September 4, 2014 at 3:18 pm, by

        Many single ladies and single guys tell me they are decent at meeting new people but are having trouble finding the RIGHT person. In this dating video I share exactly how to identify the right person for you so that you don’t end up wasting your precious time and energy with the wrong one.  After you watch, let’s discuss!

        So, what are your thoughts? What criteria do you use to determine if someone is right for you? What are you non-negotiables in a relationship? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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          How To Meet A Stranger

          Written on August 22, 2014 at 11:49 am, by

          There are about 100 million single people living in the USA alone and some of them happen to be quite sexy. If you want to learn how to meet a stranger, check out this 1-minute dating video. With this quick and simple tip it really can be easy to meet a Cutie you don’t YET know. After you watch, let’s discuss!

          So, what are your thoughts? Do you feel comfortable breaking the ice with someone you don’t know? If not, what is holding you back? If you do, what has and hasn’t worked well for you? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comment section below. Let’s really open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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            My Visualization Techniques That Work!

            Written on August 8, 2014 at 6:20 pm, by

            You can probably tell by the paw prints that this video is different. I created this video because I was feeling overwhelmed with happiness and I wanted to share the moment with you. A few months ago I used a visualization technique in which I imagined that I would create a fun video which helps both singles and dogs in need and today with the help of Kirschearian Productions we shot that video! I hope to share that incredible video within the next couple of months. But what I want you to know is that I use visualization techniques often because they work. After you watch (with the volume all the way up please), let’s discuss!

            So, what are your thoughts? What do you want to make happen in your life? Do you use any visualization techniques and do they work for you? We want to hear from you and if you like this video please share it!

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              Good First Date Ideas

              Written on July 24, 2014 at 6:37 pm, by

              Let’s face it, the only way to get a second date with that Cutie is to be your best self on the first date. In this 1-minute video I share some good first date ideas which will have your Cutie desperate for more, more and more. After you watch, let’s discuss!

              So, what are your thoughts? What do you like to do on a first date which has worked well for you? What has your date done that you’ve absolutely hated? What are some good date ideas that you’d like to share? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s really open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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                Online Dating Profile Tips

                Written on July 18, 2014 at 10:51 am, by

                If you’re not meeting quality people online it is probably time for you to tweak your online dating profile a little. Since your photo is what everyone looks at first and decides either “yah” or “nay” it is probably the most important part. In this quick video I share some online dating profile tips so you can get as many quality “yah’s” as possible! After you watch, let’s discuss!

                So, what are your thoughts? What do you think makes for a great online dating profile photo? Have you ever seen a profile photo which made you want to run for the hills? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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                  How to Get What You Want From A Man

                  Written on July 1, 2014 at 6:27 pm, by

                  Last weekend I went to Union Square with the flirt squad and had a blast answering everyone’s dating questions. Ladies, if you have ever wondered how to get what you want from a man I think you are going to really enjoy this 1-minute video. Gentlemen, if you have you ever known a woman who you had a hard time saying no to we’d love to hear your thoughts on whether or not this is how she did it.

                  So, what do you think? Ladies, how do you ask for what you want and do you usually get it? Gentlemen, how do you like to be asked for something from a lady you are dating? Let’s open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating advice video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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                    My 5 Favorite FLIRTING Tips!

                    Written on June 22, 2014 at 10:40 am, by

                    Flirting is one of life greatest pleasures.  But if you don’t know how to flirt with someone you’re attracted to then I think you are really going to enjoy the “5 Fun Flirting Tips” article I recently wrote for DigitalRomanceInc.com.  In that article I shared that flirting is simply a way of interacting with someone which is fun for both of you.  Almost every day people tell me that they don’t know how to flirt and below are 3 of the 5 points I shared in the article.  To read the full article please click:  http://digitalromanceinc.com/dating/5-fun-flirting-tips/

                    1. Give Good Eye

                    The MOST important part of flirting is the way you look at each other. So if you’re not comfortable looking directly into that Cutie’s eye this is definitely an area you will want to practice and improve. When flirting I recommend you look directly into their eyes about 75% of the conversation while appreciating their best qualities. This will allow your eyes to naturally emit an electric chemistry which will be very inviting and be very hard for your Cutie to resist.

                    2. Have A Fun Attitude

                    Flirting is essentially an attitude which shows that you’re enjoying yourself and you’re enjoying the lucky person you’re flirting with. Flirting is not about having an intelligent conversation, flirting is about having a fun and pleasurable conversation.  I coach a lot of singles who have achieved amazing goals by using their intellect and they tell me they don’t know how to flirt. But flirting with Cuties is not about using your brain to communicate.  Flirting is all about using your body to communicate and you can do this by smiling easily, laughing at their jokes and having an overall light and breezy demeanor.

                    3. Pay Attention

                    When you are speaking with your Cutie give them your full attention and savor the fact that you are in their presence. In fact I’d like you to imagine that even if a pack of wild coyotes broke down the door you wouldn’t notice because you are just too enthralled with your Cutie. So make sure that when you are flirting your body is completely facing them, you are nodding along with what they are saying, and you are easily sharing that gorgeous smile of yours.

                    To read the full article on DigitalRomanceInc.com please click: http://digitalromanceinc.com/dating/5-fun-flirting-tips/ and then get out there and FLIRT!

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