Good First Date Ideas

Written on July 24, 2014 at 6:37 pm, by

Let’s face it, the only way to get a second date with that Cutie is to be your best self on the first date. In this 1-minute video I share some good first date ideas which will have your Cutie desperate for more, more and more. After you watch, let’s discuss!

So, what are your thoughts? What do you like to do on a first date which has worked well for you? What has your date done that you’ve absolutely hated? What are some good date ideas that you’d like to share? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s really open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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    Online Dating Profile Tips

    Written on July 18, 2014 at 10:51 am, by

    If you’re not meeting quality people online it is probably time for you to tweak your online dating profile a little. Since your photo is what everyone looks at first and decides either “yah” or “nay” it is probably the most important part. In this quick video I share some online dating profile tips so you can get as many quality “yah’s” as possible! After you watch, let’s discuss!

    So, what are your thoughts? What do you think makes for a great online dating profile photo? Have you ever seen a profile photo which made you want to run for the hills? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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      How to Get What You Want From A Man

      Written on July 1, 2014 at 6:27 pm, by

      Last weekend I went to Union Square with the flirt squad and had a blast answering everyone’s dating questions. Ladies, if you have ever wondered how to get what you want from a man I think you are going to really enjoy this 1-minute video. Gentlemen, if you have you ever known a woman who you had a hard time saying no to we’d love to hear your thoughts on whether or not this is how she did it.

      So, what do you think? Ladies, how do you ask for what you want and do you usually get it? Gentlemen, how do you like to be asked for something from a lady you are dating? Let’s open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating advice video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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        My 5 Favorite FLIRTING Tips!

        Written on June 22, 2014 at 10:40 am, by

        Flirting is one of life greatest pleasures.  But if you don’t know how to flirt with someone you’re attracted to then I think you are really going to enjoy the “5 Fun Flirting Tips” article I recently wrote for DigitalRomanceInc.com.  In that article I shared that flirting is simply a way of interacting with someone which is fun for both of you.  Almost every day people tell me that they don’t know how to flirt and below are 3 of the 5 points I shared in the article.  To read the full article please click:  http://digitalromanceinc.com/dating/5-fun-flirting-tips/

        1. Give Good Eye

        The MOST important part of flirting is the way you look at each other. So if you’re not comfortable looking directly into that Cutie’s eye this is definitely an area you will want to practice and improve. When flirting I recommend you look directly into their eyes about 75% of the conversation while appreciating their best qualities. This will allow your eyes to naturally emit an electric chemistry which will be very inviting and be very hard for your Cutie to resist.

        2. Have A Fun Attitude

        Flirting is essentially an attitude which shows that you’re enjoying yourself and you’re enjoying the lucky person you’re flirting with. Flirting is not about having an intelligent conversation, flirting is about having a fun and pleasurable conversation.  I coach a lot of singles who have achieved amazing goals by using their intellect and they tell me they don’t know how to flirt. But flirting with Cuties is not about using your brain to communicate.  Flirting is all about using your body to communicate and you can do this by smiling easily, laughing at their jokes and having an overall light and breezy demeanor.

        3. Pay Attention

        When you are speaking with your Cutie give them your full attention and savor the fact that you are in their presence. In fact I’d like you to imagine that even if a pack of wild coyotes broke down the door you wouldn’t notice because you are just too enthralled with your Cutie. So make sure that when you are flirting your body is completely facing them, you are nodding along with what they are saying, and you are easily sharing that gorgeous smile of yours.

        To read the full article on DigitalRomanceInc.com please click: http://digitalromanceinc.com/dating/5-fun-flirting-tips/ and then get out there and FLIRT!

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          REAL Reason Most People Are Single

          Written on June 13, 2014 at 3:36 pm, by

          First and foremost, Happy Father’s Day! Today I’m feeling very grateful to have been raised by such an amazing man.  I love my dad very much and I feel very grateful to have him in my life.   We all have dads and we wouldn’t be here without them.  I hope you are enjoying the day as well.

          In the oldie-but-goody video below I reveal one of the main reasons there are so many attractive and accomplished singles who want to meet someone special but can’t seem to meet the right person.  I also provide you with a plan to help guide you toward couplehood success :-)

          If you have any questions about how to go from single to meeting someone special I’d love to answer them in the comment section below.  BUT even better, I’d love to answer your dating and flirting questions LIVE and ON-THE-SPOT!!!!  

          I’m so excited to share that on June 28, 2014 I’m going to be in Union Square in NYC along with the Flirt Squad and a camera.  On that exciting afternoon we are going to be taking a limited number of questions and then I’m going to answer your dating questions for free right then and there!!!  The best questions will be recorded and the videos will be shared on youtube and used in future blog posts and newsletters.  If you’d like to join the festivities please email us the dating question you’d like me to answer and we’ll let you know the details.  This is going to be a SUPER fun and social experience and I can’t wait!!!!

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            Become A Confident Flirt This Summer!

            Written on June 1, 2014 at 2:12 pm, by

            Who DOESN’T want to flirt with Cuties this summer? Yeah, I didn’t think so so stop what you are doing and watch the best video I’ve ever created so you can learn once and for all how to flirt and leave that Cutie desperate for more, more and more.

            If you have any questions about how to flirt better or thoughts about flirting you’d like to share feel free to share them in the comments section below. Let’s really open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this video please share it with your friends!

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              Want To Date Someone In A Relationship?

              Written on May 16, 2014 at 4:05 pm, by

              So, let’s be real right now shall we? Have you ever been interested in someone who is already in a relationship? We all know people who have done it and maybe even YOU have? If you’ve ever even wondered about whether on not you should go for it you need to watch this 1-minute video right now. Then, let’s discuss!

              So, have you ever tried to date someone who is already in a relationship? Do you know anyone who has? How did it work out? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s really open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this video please share it with your friends.

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                Common DUMP_WORTHY Dating Mistakes

                Written on May 9, 2014 at 3:06 pm, by

                As a dating coach I am constantly hearing about dates which have the good, the bad, and the ugly. So many people are making seemingly innocent mistakes which are getting them dumped and I don’t want that to happen to you or anyone you know. In this oldie-but-goodie 1-minute video I share a few of the most common dating mistakes which lead to getting dumped. If you’ve gone a great date and didn’t hear from your date again I encourage you to watch this video. Then, let’s discuss!

                So, what do you think? Has your date ever made any of these mistakes? If so, how did you handle it? Did you go out with them again afterwards or did you send them to dumpsville? Dare I ask this question, have you ever made any of these mistakes? What did your date do about it? We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s really open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating advice video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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                  Where To Meet YOUR Type Of Cutie!

                  Written on May 2, 2014 at 3:29 pm, by

                  Below is an excerpt from my new book, “Flirt For Fun & Meet The One: Dating Secrets From The Dateologist”

                  Meeting new people, flirting, and getting hot dates is a skill that can be practiced everywhere you go. People always ask me where to go to meet someone new and I tell them that often you can meet someone interesting in your everyday life.  But if you want to increase your chances of meeting someone special you may want to go to these specific places to meet people who share your interests:

                  * Athletic people: Join a co-ed sports team like bowling, kickball, softball, or Frisbee; join a gym (you want to go there looking great so leave your old ripped  fraternity/sorority T-shirts at home); sign up for co-ed martial arts classes; attend athletic events.

                  * Corporate types: Join business associations and attend luncheons, cocktail parties, and association events; frequent bars and restaurants in the financial or business district of your city; sign up for seminars and lectures.

                  * Funny folks: Head to comedy shows; go to readings; sign up for comedy writing classes; enroll in improv classes (which, I might add, can help you improve your conversational skills and teach you to think quickly on your feet).

                  * Musicians: Keep on the lookout for live music events; take up an instrument and take group lessons; head to rock concerts and symphonies; stop to listen to impromptu street musicians.

                  * Techy types: Stop by the Apple store and chat with a Genius; sign up for a class in HTML or computer programming (you may meet a cute instructor while you learn a new skill); grab some friends and head to local tech events.

                  * Altruists: Volunteer for a local shelter; get involved in your community; start a program for needy children (literacy, scholarships, counseling); sign up with national and international charity organizations and attend rallies, benefits and other events.

                  * Friends of friends: Accept party invites, even if you don’t know the host very well; agree to show up for blind dates — and arrange them for friends; host a party to which each of your friends must bring an unattached single they like but are not attracted to; interact with friends’ Facebook friends.

                  If you have any specific places you like to go to meet people with certain characteristics please share it the comments section below or on my Facebook wall: www.facebook.com/dateologist.tracey.steinberg.  I’d love to hear from you and your generosity may very well help someone else meet their Someone Special.  Now THAT is the kind of karma you want!

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                    They Haven’t Returned The Text YET?

                    Written on April 25, 2014 at 4:40 pm, by

                    Lately I’ve been getting so many questions about texting and what it all means so I decided to bring back this oldie-but-goodie  45-second video in which I answer the question…what is a reasonable TEXTpectation???  If you’ve ever felt angst about someone you’re interested in not texting you back you need to watch this video now.  Then, let’s discuss!

                    So, what do you think?  What do you think is a reasonable amount of time for someone to text you back? At what point do you assume they aren’t interested because they didn’t text you back?  When you’ve taken longer than what you think is reasonable, what was your reason? Has anyone ever gotten mad at you about the amount of time that passed before you returned the text?  We’d love to hear your thoughts in the comments section below. Let’s really open up the conversation and get real with each other. Also, if you like this dating advice video please share it with the single ladies and single guys you know!

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