Far and above, both men and women find confidence to be the most attractive trait. But can you really feel like a rock star any time you want? The answer is a resounding YES and below are 4 steps you can take right now to instantly feel more confident and more attractive.


1. Take a deep breath and strike a power pose of confidence. Stand up tall with your shoulders back and head up high. Take a deep breath and know that you got this because you do. When you strike your power pose of confidence you are ready for anything.


2. Put on clothes that flatter you and make you feel like a VIP. By putting on great clothes we can change not only how we view ourselves, but also how others view us. When we know we look good, we inspire others to think we look good. So going forward, only wear clothes that support you feeling your best.


3. List your past successes and all of the good things happening in your life right now. It might feel a little uncomfortable at first, but I promise you’ll be grateful that you did it. Then take that list and pick the top 5 reasons it is awesome to be you. Keep that list in your wallet and review it frequently.


4. Imagine yourself achieving your goal and savor the feeling that can come from that success. Ask yourself,”what if I actually achieve my goal? What exactly would that look like?” Now, stay focused on what you want to happen and act “as if” that is exactly what is going to happen. Everybody who succeeds focuses on being successful.


There you have it. You now have 4 ways to instantly feel like someone who is oozing with confidence and intrigue. Enjoy your new level of confidence and please let me know how it helps you so I can celebrate your successes with you!