I hope you’ve been having a wonderful holiday season.  There are just 2 days left in 2013 and so I want to take this opportunity to thank you for being a part of my community this year.  It has been an incredible year and I’m deeply grateful to have been able to help as many people as I have meet someone special.  My life’s purpose is to help everyone who wants love to have love and as I reflect on 2013 I think of everyone who has invited me on their journey towards finding the One and feel overwhelmed with joy.

In order to become the best me possible, every year I set aside time to reflect on my previous goals for 2013.  This year has been particularly special for me because I released my book, Flirt For Fun & Meet The One: Dating Secrets From The Dateologist. While it is true that I JUST released it, it still counts as a 2013 goal!  But what has been even more satisfying is that many readers have shared how valuable, enjoyable, and eye-opening the book has been for them.  It has meant the world to me.

On December 31, I’ll write out everything I want to accomplish and who I want to connect with and support in 2014.  I believe that the only way to get what you want is to know what you want and stay focused on what is important without being distracted by lesser goals.  I invite you to join me and write out your goals for 2014 so that together we can seize the opportunity to make 2014 the best year ever.  May I suggest you answer the following questions:

What dreams do you want to turn into your reality in 2014?
What will achieving these goals do for you?
How exactly will you make these goals happen?
What resources do you already possess that will help you?
What resources do you need in order to achieve your goals?

After you write your goals for 2014 I’d love to hear them along with the highlights of your 2013 in the comments section below so I can support you and celebrate with you. See you in 2014!