On an almost daily basis people tell me that they don’t feel confident about their ability to flirt with someone they find attractive. If you feel that way, I recommend that you think of flirting as essentially a playful attitude which communicates that you are enjoying yourself and the lucky person you are flirting with. Flirting is light and fun and below are a few of my favorite flirting tips:

1. Give your new friend direct eye contact about 70% of the time, which is about the same amount of time you devote to looking at the road while you are driving. Eye contact is the most essential part of flirting.

2. Smile as often as possible and assume your new friend can do anything successfully.

3. Treat everything your new friend says as if they are “gems of wisdom” and give them your full attention. For example, a pack of wild wolves could suddenly bust in and you wouldn’t notice them because you are giving 100% of your attention to your lucky new friend.

If you would like to practice flirting, I’d love to invite you to one of my wildly successful FLIRTING PARTIES!!! At each Flirting Party we go to a target-rich environment (a bar or party with a lot of singles) and I share my 3 simple steps for meeting and flirting with someone you find attractive. These parties are always ridiculous amounts of fun and I have spots available on:

Ladies Only: November 30, 2011 and December 15, 2011

Men Only: December 1, 2011

Please note that space is limited and spots are reserved on a first-come-first-served basis. Please also note that the party on 11/30/11 will be taped by a national TV news channel. I look forward to helping you meet, flirt, and date people you are attracted to!!!