Flirting can be a lot of fun but you may be someone who finds it a little scary. Let me assure you that it’s a skill that you can improve with practice, it is just like any other skill. Flirting is essentially a way of communicating which shows that you are enjoying someone’s company. You do this by letting them know that you notice their positives, while smiling and giving great eye contact.

If you feel uncomfortable approaching and flirting with someone you find attractive, may I suggest that you keep in mind that you don’t need to “wow” someone with an opening line. In fact, the less clever the opening line the better. Also, once you start speaking with your attractive new friend it is best to keep the conversation topics light, fun, and positive.

If you would like help flirting, I invite you to join me and a group of people for a “Flirting Party” We’ll be going out and about in New York City (bars, parties, etc.) and I will be giving each person on-the-spot guidance and tips on how to approach someone attractive, have an exciting conversation, and ensure you see your new friend again. These parties are massive amounts of fun! Email me for the schedule.

If you would like on-the spot guidance and one-on-one help from me improving your flirting skills while out and about in New York City, email me for a “Flirt Training Session.”